What should become part and parcel of our
character, and first and foremost on our minds? Simply this: To make it a
better world for more of us than for fewer of us.
"The death of our civilization is no longer a theory or an academic possibility; it is the road we're on." Peter Goldmark, former Rockefeller Foundation president
Monday, December 24, 2012
Sunday, December 16, 2012
Embrace of Illusion
“Know your enemy, know yourself; in a hundred battles you will not be in peril.” Sun Tzu
America knows neither.
Sunday, December 9, 2012
The Spirit of Irony
An ironic thing: Religion should help spirituality, but often enough, it instead gets in the way.
Sunday, December 2, 2012
Circle of Toxicity
It is unnatural to be under constant stress, as people in our society often are, especially in these economically trying times. Being under constant stress first compromises, then degrades, then exhausts the immune system. We then become susceptible to all sorts of things. Add to that how thoroughly we have contaminated our environment and our food and water, utterly overloading our ability to neutralize and expel toxins, and you have a prescription for toxic excess to tick like a time bomb.
We have to address things holistically if we are to do anything more than run exhausted from one crisis to another—or to make the connections that most of those crises are…connected.
We have to address things holistically if we are to do anything more than run exhausted from one crisis to another—or to make the connections that most of those crises are…connected.
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Gathering of Hunters? Or the Hunted, Gather?
How many of us proudly awake early like
hunters and gatherers of yore, to hunt and gather “bargains” like $8 mixers
(that will likely break in 6 months) on the morning after our feasting holiday? We thrust ourselves forward in the battle for
supremacy, then come back to our modern caves with our “game” (doubly, triply,
ironic, eh?) and our “gatherings,” like it was some accomplishment worthy of
our homestead and our humanhoods.
Sunday, November 18, 2012
Public Servants of...
While many local leaders close pools, libraries, police and fire stations, they often build multimillion dollar new clubhouses on golf courses. Who they really serve might be a bit obvious.
Monday, November 12, 2012
Thoreau Explanation
"These same questions that disturb and puzzle and confound us have in their turn occurred to all the wise men; not one has been omitted; and each has answered them according to his ability, by his words and by his life."
Henry David Thoreau, "Reading," in the book Walden
Henry David Thoreau, "Reading," in the book Walden
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Getting To Know "Them"
I say to those who rail
against the “deadbeats” and “takers” and “moochers” and “dependency-heads”: How
many do you PERSONALLY know? And how
well do you know them? Do you know their
story?
Because it’s easy to be
against something in the abstract. Be
specific. And about more than just a few
glaring cases. One can’t single out a
few and imply a mass problem, while ignoring the scraping many who want dignity
and the chance for a livable wage in exchange for their hard work.
We rarely get to know
those who we condemn.
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Things Change And They Don't
One highly important
subject you didn’t hear much about this campaign season, and effectively squat
during the four mainstream debates: Climate Change.
Scientists and environmentalists
say we are fighting over deck chair places on the Titanic, instead of figuring
a way to get to some lifeboats or fashion things to help us, and maybe, just
MAYBE, plug the hole and avert catastrophe.
And yet we say nothing
when the candidates don’t even discuss the subject.
There’s a reason that the
quote above remains week in and week out.
Sunday, October 21, 2012
From The Square Deal to New Deal to Fair Deal to No Deal or Raw Deal
A fairly big lack of political
enthusiasm hangs over America at a time when its politics have rarely been more
important.
In the (race? crawl? slugfest?)
for the top dog spot, one man is somewhat narcissistic, insecure and in need of
affirmation, self-trumpeting, overly pragmatic, and excessively afraid of being
perceived as weak and ineffectual (as a certain one of his predecessors was
labeled). The other is a vacuous man who
wants his past hidden, who doesn’t want to run on specifics, but only vague
promises that leave the electorate nothing to evaluate, but whose proclivities
favor more of the criminally disastrous rich-serving policies that have brought
us ruin and extended deep recession.
We are “shocked”, “offended”
and “threatened” by marginal or transitory things, and make THOSE things
important while our real threats go unnoticed or uncared about.
When one examines
history, one finds that when a culture is not mass offended—neither among the
masses nor among the elites—by the things which are true threats to the body
politic, the society, and the civilization, then decay and downfall have
begun. When that culture is instead
diverted by spectacle or a series of mostly meaningless “scandals” or momentary
buzzings, then the decay has accelerated.
When future
historians look back at us, they will see turning points. For example, witness the country—and its
elites—who were near uniformly shocked and revolted by what Nixon did
(including illegal wiretapping and other spying). Thirty years later, witness little shock and
almost no revolt at illegal wiretapping, indefinite detention, torture,
etc. Then, to cement for us how much
power has shifted and how little we seem to care, we at most faintly whimpered
when a Vice-President (Cheney) declared the Vice-President “not a part of
government” and so not accountable to the people, nor to its investigators when
they want copies of emails and other documents and communications.
It is a scene played
out in sickening similarity to the long decay of the Roman Republic. One does not have to wait until the end of
the Republic in witnessing the demise of its defenders (including the quite
imperfect Cicero). It was a long and
steady decline, with one thing after another occurring that in previous times
would have called forth both the people and its elites to set to rights. A people’s character can change over time,
and it is often not for the better, especially when the country becomes richer
and more powerful. The Roman Republic’s
long decline of a century and a half, from the Second Punic War to when Julius
and Octavian finally effectively finished it off, was marked by character decay
in the patrician class certainly, but in the plebeian class as well.
And they too had their
Pogos who spoke out yet not enough listened, cared, or acted.
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Doubling Down On Yet Another Dose Of Double Bull
“Double taxation” is mostly a straw-man
argument. Lots of people and situations
are double or triple taxed: Income
taxes, payroll taxes, and sales taxes. Every
time you pay your repairman, or well, practically ANYBODY, you do so with money
you have already paid taxes on. And that
repairman will pay taxes on the money you give him or her, and so on.
So capital gains and corporate taxes are not
the big deal of disparate treatment they’re made out to be by the right-wing,
although the flow of capital and investment PERHAPS needs consideration.
Lower capital gains don’t create jobs here
either. We’ve had them for many years
and few livable wage jobs have been created by it. They mostly just enrich the rich further, while
the secretaries who serve the rich pay a higher rate on an incredibly smaller income.
We have to quit being manipulated by these
deflective, deceptive lines of bull.
History is going to record us as self-destructants willingly conned into
acting against our interests and for the interests of those doing the
conning. The people of the future will
say those words: “How could they let that happen to themselves?”
Unless we start questioning more and accepting
less.
Sunday, October 7, 2012
The No-Coddle Zone
In my undergrad days, we
all complained about the amount of work that teachers gave us, how out of touch
they were, how they didn’t coordinate the amount of work or the timing with
other teachers, how uncaring they were whether we had any quality of life, etc.
And the faculty, rightly
so, mostly ignored us.
Because all students
complain. It’s not that there doesn’t
need to be real transformation in “higher” education; there DEFINITELY does. But elevating the student to coddled prima
donna status is not the needed reform.
Why was society smarter
back then?
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Who Benefits, Who?
Ask the question. Ask as you observe the continual assault on things that actually work, even things that work relatively cheaply. Assaults by those who, despite all the demonstrated mess of contractors and privatization, want to continue to privatize more. People like to deceive themselves that privatizing brings so many more efficiencies and cost savings. It usually doesn’t, and any comparisons are usually slanted anyway. For instance, the assault on the USPS. W and his ilk passed the Postal Act of 2006 which mandated that USPS prefund 100 percent of future retirees’ health benefits. No other government or quasi-govt agency has to do this, nor any publicly traded corporation. This was just an obvious attempt to first weaken the USPS, so that it could be carved to pieces. If this law were lifted, USPS would be turning a profit. And this bellowing about how the USPS retirement system is dramatically underfunded is agenda-driven too: One has to compare both the FERS and CSRS systems of the USPS, and in the net accounting, it’s pretty favorable (and certainly so in comparison to a lot of other places). And one more thing: USPS employees are not making a killing. Sure, a few supervisors and management types are doing well, maybe excessively so. But the rank and file are just that, pretty average for the most part. And if you had to do their job, you wouldn’t be so envious.
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Government and Society Are, Directly Or Indirectly, Our Reflections
One of the clearest things
that poll after poll reveals is the profound civic, political, and historical
ignorance and apathy of most Americans.
Monday, September 17, 2012
In The Daily Struggle for "Advantage"...
Issues get shoved aside. While corporations and the top 1% swim in
more and more money, there is none for the pressing needs of everyone
else. Those wealthy not only refuse to
contribute what they USED to contribute, they actually want to contribute LESS
than what they do now. They have
decoupled themselves, just like the wealthy of ancient Rome.
History can’t scream. It is a silent
pointer. But we have to look.
Sunday, September 9, 2012
A Noble Character in Fantasy Fiction With Instruction For Us
“Guilt resembles a sword with two edges. On the one hand it cuts for justice, imposing
practical morality upon those who fear it.
Guilt, the consequence of conscience, is what separates the goodly
persons from the evil. Given a situation
that promises gain, most drow can kill another, kin or otherwise, and walk away
carrying no emotional burden at all. The
drow assassin might fear retribution but will shed no tears for his
victim. To humans—and to surface elves,
and to all of the other goodly races—the suffering imposed by conscience will
usually far outweigh any external threats.” Drizzt Do’Urden, pp. 63-64 of Sojourn.
Sunday, September 2, 2012
The Hegemon US in Slow Decline Is Like a Frog in Heating Water
Being in a slow decline is
like a frog in slowly heating water. If
the water was hot immediately, it would jump out. But gradually? It will allow itself to be boiled to
death.
Sunday, August 26, 2012
A Different Kind of Patriotism
Oftentimes, people who are critical of this nation
and this society’s actions, including me, are told: “You don’t love this
country, so get out.” Fellow citizen,
you are wrong. It is precisely because I love this country so much that I am so
deeply disappointed in it. So amply blessed,
so richly advantaged, this country should be ENORMOUSLY better than what it has
demonstrated.
Monday, August 20, 2012
Indiana, Mr. Jones
I was in Indianapolis
over the weekend. The city is often
poorly lit, from street lights, to exit signs, to businesses. Why?
I also saw a high number
of young, seemingly able bodied (both Caucasian and African-American)
panhandlers (beggars). Was it con
artistry? Lack of economic opportunity
(jobs, start-ups)? True homelessness
(and if so, what caused that—veteran maladjustment? Job disruption? Mental challenges)?
In
retrospect, I should have taken time to ask.
Maybe that’s a key challenge of our times—we don’t take the time to ask.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Ethic-less Youth or Rational Response?
It would appear our youth are in large part embroiled in illusion and delusion.
Or is it because the
system itself, both the school system and the larger society, is not doing
anything relevant or real anymore, not doing anything to have faith in? Kind of like the old joke in the Soviet Union,
“the government pretends to pay us, so we pretend to work.”
The reader can
decide.
US high school students are, at best,
“apathetic” about ethical standards (there’s good spin). 64% of students said they cheated on a test
in the past year, and 30% said they stole from a store. Yet they also reported they were “satisfied
with their personal ethics and character,” and “when it comes to doing what is
right, I am better than most people I know.” From a Josephson Institute survey,
2010.
Sunday, August 5, 2012
Feel The Strings In Your Back
Want an example of how corporate America runs
things? On Sirius satellite radio,
supposedly one of the “few restrictions,” “say anything,” media outlets, the commercial programming is often the same. Sure,
there are fewer commercials on the Right’s channel (is that because they don’t
need as much money, or get more listeners that generate more revenue? Or do they get more subsidies or
donations? Unknown), but both it and the
Left’s channel are often surprisingly the same in their commercials. For instance, a certain anti-tax commercial
promoting a tax accountant firm. It aired
frequently on BOTH right (“Patriot”) and left (“Left”) satellite radio
channels. So does one about selling gold. While I do not believe the
two sides are equally to blame for the spiral the country is in, both ARE to
blame, and sometimes there isn’t enough difference. Because in back of them, with hands on the
controlling strings of money, are the plutocratic elite.
Sunday, July 29, 2012
America, How Do You Like Being Played?
Chick-fil-a: Much ado
about little to nothing on all "sides." We Neros fiddle while Rome burns. We are the perfectly diverted, our energies
turned to fringes--and on each other--while our common adversaries cement their
control.
Those adversaries have
found in culture issues the easy emotional lever to perfectly divert, divide, and
subjugate us. And then we wonder why
nothing ever gets done about corporate control, money in politics, jobs that are gone forever, the plight
of the shrinking middle class, etc. etc.
Sunday, July 22, 2012
A Roar A What?
The shootings have people
fixated on this incident, which is tragic, but not in a major way. Hundreds of thousands didn’t die, not even
thousands or even hundreds. More happens
each day, both directly and indirectly, to affect far more people, and far more
significantly. But let’s look at this
incident anyway:
1. Who was the perpetrator? Another loner white young male. What does that say about our society? That maybe we’ve lost our connection to each
other and our affection for and responsibility to the greater society? That maybe we can’t distinguish illusion and
diversion from reality? That too many
feel powerless, that their lives are put upon or have no meaning? That our very culture (and its vacuousness or
exploitive nature) spurs mental illness—violent mental illness—too often?
2. The proponents of, and those against, gun
control, line up and start spouting.
What if the very premise of their argument is off? Lots of societies (Finland, Sweden, Britain,
etc.) have few to no guns, and have few problems of mass murder. Others have a lot of guns, and also few
problems. An example of the latter is
Switzerland, which is not a homogenous society, but has a “well-regulated
militia.” Switzerland’s pretty
safe.
3. Handguns deserve separate consideration. Since handguns have little to no function
outside of offensive or defensive use against humans (and only secondarily in
warfare behind assault rifles, etc.), societies with profusions of them tend to
be more violent than others.
4. As we become less trusting of each other, as we
know each other less, as we find less in common, we have become what Vance
Packard warned us about in his 1970 book, A
Nation of Strangers. A nation whose
inhabitants lock themselves behind their doors often. More gated communities. More worrisome overprotection, which isolates
even further. We have become
hyper-individualistic and increasingly non-communal. This is likely reflected in opinion polls
about handgun control. Around 70%
favored such measures 40 years ago. Barely 25% do today. Fear and distrust, that. We are a disconnected and afraid society.
5. Still, is it an “epidemic” of mass murder
violence? Not statistically, not by a
long shot (yes, another pun), and the chance of it happening to you or yours is
really, really small. But it does
contribute to more fear, more suspicion of fellow citizens. And the more focus on it, the more it is
sensationalized, the greater chance some copycat will be moved to action. And the rule of terrorist-type impact is to
try to outdo one’s predecessors.
6. Would more armed people have prevented it? Unlikely.
The loners are usually ready to die, for starters. More importantly, since they get to fire the
opening salvo (where most casualties usually happen), that’s not going to be
prevented outright. Especially if
sophisticated tactics (like the tear gas employed) are used. And while the shooter MIGHT have been shot
down by other armed members, does that really make you all feel safer? What if it becomes a crossfire situation? Even if you’re armed, being in a crossfire
sucks, and can be even more deadly. And
how exactly are first responders (police) going to sort out “the bad guy(s)”
when they arrive? In general, having a
population armed while “in public” creates more problems than it solves. For example, misunderstandings,
misperceptions about actions or movements, etc. can trigger (pun intended again)
a violent reaction to…nothing. More
people would get hurt or killed with dozens or hundreds of these “misunderstandings”
in a year than in 20 years of mass murders like what occurred in Aurora.
Everyone wants a simple
answer, to “fix it.” There aren’t any
for this. We have to, in this, as for
many things, come to the realization that life is better when low risk is
assumed, rather than extreme efforts to mitigate that low risk.
But the bigger issue is, what kind of society do we have and are perpetuating? Correcting that will do more to secure us than anything. It is also the hardest road. The result will be worth it though. However, it does takes more courage and determination than just buying more guns.
Monday, July 16, 2012
It Can't Last
It can’t last. The truly aware know it, and even the vaguely
aware sense it at some level. But they
don’t know how to get from here to a better world. They’re afraid of the pain. Too late for that, Americanos. You f’d the relatively “painless” escape valve up a long
time ago.
We are in Doom Drift on a
near-endlessly wide river. If we drift
all the way to the Fall(s), we go over the edge—Civilization Doom. A strong, wrenching, all-out exertion by us
can avert that, but we have to jettison a lot to have a chance at success—and to
our detriment we continue to let the selfish, shortsighted, and criminally
foolish be in control, as they have been for decades.
The other likely
possibility is that a violent storm blows us way off course, and we smash into
uncharted territory. Many of us may
perish in that, and many more as we struggle to survive in a harsh new reality.
I think this is a reason
that books like World War Z (and obsession with “zombie apocalypses” in
general) are so popular. Like the
sleepwalking populations of past political-economic entities such as the Roman,
Ottoman, and Austrian-Hungarian empires, we recognize the signs of decay and
the lack of any real measures by “the elites” to stop it. In fact, we recognize that those elites are
prime center of the decay. Whether war,
revolution, plague, famine, or disaster of some kind, wrenching change becomes
acceptable to the populace at some level, even if not desired.
[By the way, World War Z
is, in addition to widely informed—and worldly in the truest sense—insightful social
commentary, it offers glimpses of possibility for a better future out of
catastrophe, even while it condemns our present sloth and illusion embracing. Maybe it is a best seller for more than just
zombies. :)]
If drought continues, if
climate change and its resultant destruction really does proceed past the
tipping point (as many in the scientific community fear), if national economic
and fiscal criminality proceed, if resource consumption accelerates while environmental
destruction and pollution continue, if we at the same time remain married to
finite fossil fuels and the ills that flow in every direction from them, then the
cascade will have begun.
We are doing next to
nothing to recognize these interlocking threats (of which I have mentioned but
a few!) and change course. Will history—and
our descendants—curse us?
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Irony Boom
We’re creeping toward a
billion in trade deficit just for the matter alone of celebrating our “Independence”
Day. Try not to miss the irony that we
import most of our fireworks from our biggest competitor/rival/potential enemy,
China. We give them money so we can
celebrate how “independent” we are.
If we were doing okay
overall, this would be no bother at all.
China apparently has a competitive advantage in fireworks making; okay
then, we’ll buy from them. But we’re
also buying a lot of other things as well.
Even with our increased export situation of the past few years (a weak
economy makes your goods a bit more competitive, other things being equal, which
they never are), we’re still not far from a trillion dollar a year trade
deficit. That’s wealth transfer to
others. Others who may not have your
best interests at heart. And you,
America, get weaker every day it happens.
You don’t make enough here that gets sold elsewhere. Hence the problem. You’re a net consumer, not
a net producer, not even a break-evener.
All in service to what
the corporate masters and plutocrats, who worship at the altar of unregulated,
unthinking globalization, call the wonders of the “free market.”
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
"They got used to it"
Isn’t that how we’ve
become? We keep adapting to changes—everything from roads and stations and
buildings that don’t get repaired to pensions that disappear in favor of “voluntary
contribution plans” (and, insult to injury, for people who aren’t paid enough
to save). These changes are wrought by
our “elites.” We have time for
everything else in the world—TV, internet, video games, eating out, movies,
boating, driving, and on and on—but we have no time to push back, to question,
to try to change, all the things that are being forced upon us.
Sort of a “That sucks; I’m
going to do X to make me feel better or take my mind off it.” So no discussions ensue. We are left with the scream domination
competitions of the fervent believers of the various political philosophies.
Fail.
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Can's End
To the kick-the-can-down-the-road American
public and “their” Congressional legislators, the highly respected
Congressional Budget Office (CBO) has delivered this: The CBO’s computer model
can’t envision an American economic and budgetary model that can function past
2027.
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Compare and Contrast
After listening to superintendent, principal,
education board directors and just walking around watching and listening to
people at a high school graduation, I got the feeling that people are just
trying to manage lives and situations, not fashioning their society. I sensed no energy-infused purpose, for
themselves or their society.
I contrasted that with viewing Chinese TV,
which, despite its occasional heavy hand of government interference, seems to
reflect a society that, despite its deep problems, feels it is going somewhere,
that it is making progress, that it is doing things that infuse pride. Oh,
they have problems, deep ones, some of character, but being economically sound
gets you breathing room to deal with that.
We Americans get excited about things that
divert us, not things that propel us, as individuals or society. How will Americans react when they wake up
down the road to find they are not number 1, maybe not even in the top 5
anymore?
Sunday, May 27, 2012
REMEMBER
Given what today is, the message is all on the Professor and Housewife side of this blog...
Monday, May 21, 2012
Pleading With Their Tormentors Because "Their" Servants and Protectors Are Neither
Want an indication that the environmental
battle is being lost? The National
Resource Defense Council’s best answer (and Robert Redford’s) to strip mining
on public land is to ask you the citizen to write a letter to the CEOs of the
strip mining companies. They aren’t even bothering to ask you to write a letter
to your Congressman, or to the President, or the Secretary of the Department of
the Interior.
Monday, May 14, 2012
50th Anniversary
This year marks the 50th anniversary
of Rachel Carson’s seminal book, Silent Spring.
In re-reading it after all these years, I am shaken, jolted, struck,
shocked, and disturbed, all over again.
Why? Because although we congratulated
ourselves at having cycled back half a notch, we have in reality changed no
ethic at all. Sure, there are some
bright spots, some successes, and our air, water, and soil MIGHT overall be a
bit better than they were then, and yes, certain chemicals are banned (in the
US) and rivers are rarely on fire anymore.
But we have no true environmental ethic.
We have slowed down—maybe—our descent into environmental self-poisoning
and self-degeneration. But we haven’t
stopped, let alone reversed course. We
produce poisons, and continue to diffuse them everywhere, and they come back to
do us in, as individuals and civilization.
When she dedicated her book to Albert Schweitzer, and his quote,“Man has
lost the capacity to foresee and forestall.
He will end by destroying the earth,” she hoped we would really wake up. We merely cracked one eyelid—and, with a few
notable exceptions, went right on as before.
Extraterrestrial and other existence beings
must look on us as the most bizarre and unwise supposedly sentient creatures
anywhere. It is bad enough that we are a
species that preys upon itself, but we also consciously poison ourselves, our
habitats, and our posterity, not to mention the life around us.
Where are you, homo sapiens sapiens (wise,
wise, humans)? Do you really think you
are separate from nature? Our self-destructive path is evident, yet we choose
to ignore, instead embracing denial, diversion, escapism, and illusion. We are not stewards of creation, we are
monsters—mindless, selfish, destructive monsters.
Something to think—remember that seldom used
faculty?—about the next time we have to choose, in another false dichotomy, “between
jobs/money/foreign dependence/etc. and the environment.”
Sunday, May 6, 2012
General Dislike and General Despising
People think I’m easier on the Democrats
because I like them. Uhm, no, I
don’t. I just despise what their
opponents do, and that tends to seem to let them off the hook, but only in
comparison.
Sunday, April 29, 2012
Press On It
Anyone miss me? :)
The things we accept at face value often fall
apart when we press on them even a little.
I thought about this in all the traveling I’ve done lately. You see these little placards in hotel rooms
about all the “Earth responsible water and detergent savings” initiatives at
hotels. How it will save so much if you
hang your towels, etc. up so they can be used again. In my experience, either the hotels don’t
REALLY care, or they don’t do any follow up.
Because in what I’ve seen traveling to a lot of different places, it
doesn’t work. Your towel doesn’t get
hung up. It gets replaced with a fresh one,
and the one you hung up gets washed.
Why? I can only speculate that
the (largely) immigrants who provide maid service at many hotels—immigrants who
are poorly educated, maybe illiterate (at least for English)—are in any case a
bit overworked. So whether it’s can’t
read, won’t read, don’t have time to read, or maybe wouldn’t care if could and
did read, it’s easier to just replace the towel. But my main feeling is that if it was REALLY
important to the hotel and its management, the maids would be trained, with
follow-up.
What did you think, that they just used the
hair dryer to dry the towel so it wouldn’t feel wet when you touched it? :)
Sunday, April 15, 2012
Spank Daddy
A prime reason the country is in bad shape
because you, the citizen, probably know WAY more about:
Your favorite sports and sports teams
Your house and homes in general
Your car and cars in general
Shopping and bargains and stores
Clothes
Pets
Food
Grilling and barbecuing
Drama
Video games
TV, internet, social media, and entertainment and
diversion in general
Making money
You get what you focus on, because that’s what
you consider important. And what you
don’t focus on gets dictated to you. And
then you claim you are “powerless,” to do anything about it. Which converges to be self-fulfilling
prophecy, manufactured reality, and dictated result.
Sunday, April 8, 2012
Absolutely Speaking
“I am done.”
“We are through, forever.”
“My biological father made his choice to not
be a part of my life. I don’t care about
him anymore.”
“I’ll never be like that again.”
Oh, humans, and their funny words. Spoken into the ether, into the universe,
into eternity.
The ether, the universe, and eternity all
laugh back.
When it comes to relationships, nothing is so
certain as uncertainty. In fact, what
becomes unusual is when someone actually fulfills, to the letter, what they
say.
Because:
You probably aren’t done. You might be momentarily frustrated, furious,
hurt, or something else, but when you calm down, you’ll likely be back in
(sometimes illogically or even incredibly) for another round.
Forever is so long your puny and time-bound
consciousness can’t even adequately conceive it. But it seems to make you feel better to
thunder about finality, although disinterested observers probably only think it
makes you look silly.
Of course you care about your father. No matter how bad or absent he has been, he’s
your father. You would forgive him a
thousand times for a chance at acceptance, at connection, at love.
Those who issue guarantees about the future
spit in the wind, and often set themselves up to be liars. But we seem to have a desire for ourselves of the fortitude of futuristic pronouncements, and so the
solitary, biological, limited-senses, mortal unit presumes to pronounce what he
or she cannot even see, let alone have certainty of power to determine!
Ever get the feeling that otherworldly beings
might somewhere be chuckling endlessly at us? :)
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Not Failed Yet, But Failing
We are failing as a people. Because we cling to illusion, to our
emotionally anchored beliefs and false “facts.” Because, in Jack Nicholson’s
character’s words, we “can’t handle the truth.”
And so the climate swirls in changes, summer arrives
bizarrely early, the rhythms of nature are perverted, the economic guts of the
country are eaten out.
But hey, the game’s on. Return to the anesthetic.
Sunday, March 18, 2012
Correcting the B.S. Machine
The tremendous amount of misinformation about “energy”
being infused into the media outlets: I
often wonder how much the transmitters
really believe, how much is just fed to them, how much they do just to
deliberately deceive and deflect, and how much they do solely because it’s
their job.
For instance, the current drivel, pushed by
Levin and his ilk, about “the nation’s energy being controlled by the
government,” and “nothing has been done by this administration, even when they
controlled all the government.”
And to heap bizarre absurdity and outrageous
falsehood upon bizarre absurdity and outrageous falsehood, the duplicitous then
accuse others of being duplicitous.
Let’s just look at one small piece of ONE of the
many assertions: “Control of the
government.” Leaving aside what
government really “controls” in a capitalistic economy dominated by wealthy and
powerful corporations, “control’ of the (national) government means what
exactly? This current administration, of
which I am no great fan, has found opposition in the judicial branch,
especially at the top, so one of the main three branches has never been in its
corner. When its party “controlled” the
Congress, the other of three branches, it didn’t really, because the vagaries
of Senate rules allow a minority of 41 senators to block anything significant
they want. It is MUCH easier to obstruct
and to subvert than it is to actually accomplish something.
The purveyors of disinformation are banking on
people not knowing how their government “works.”
And so the republic suffers in its
ignorance. And we get mindless clamoring
for oil pipelines that will create few jobs, bring little oil to use here, do
little to change prices, and, most importantly in our disconnected-from-results
illusory culture, have no consideration of the perpetuation of how we poison ourselves
and our biosphere. And avoids
TRANSFORMATION to a better world, to solve the problems of the present and
future. No, we would rather reach for
the “easy” solutions offered by the visionless, the corrupt, the greedy. Pay no attention to the climate effects of
more oil. Particularly pay no attention to the incredibly polluting extraction
methods of this “new” tar sand/shale oil supply. Pay no attention to how heavily corrosive it
is. Pay no attention to how, when it
spills--and it WILL spill, in both pipelines and tankers--it can’t really be
cleaned up in any effective manner.
There is a 40 mile stretch of the Kalamazoo River in Michigan which is
still off limits to use because of a “small” spill of this “new” oil TWO YEARS
AGO.
And don’t find out what pair of brothers have
their hands in many aspects of the proposed pipeline.
And don’t figure out that the price of gas is
in large part a reflection of hedge funds, speculators, futures contracts, and
international demand. Or that there are taxpayer
subsidies for refining, not just drilling.
Or that refined oil is our biggest manufactured export.
And don’t realize that climate change,
unchecked, will cost, from weather devastation alone, greater than WW1, WW2, the
Great Depression, and the Cold War, COMBINED.
Americans have become exceedingly proficient
in straining at gnats and swallowing elephants. And, of course, accepting most of the illusions that come their way.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
The Ancients
The ancient philosophers took a great deal
more opportunities to truly THINK than we usually do. Consider, in this political season of
hyperbole but without further comment, this quote from Aristotle’s Ethics, on what people should do in
their behavior and their thinking “in order to become happy or to avoid
unhappiness, the principal emphasis being placed on the cultivation of the
virtues, both moral and intellectual, although other goods are also recognized
as necessary for happiness, such as wealth, health, friends, and a just society
in which to live.”
Our challenge is to holistically see and value
all the parts of what he said, and not just pick out pieces.
Sunday, February 26, 2012
Whispering Back To Power
At the rate that has been demonstrated, and
the lack of concern on the part of so many, we may lose most of what was
obtained by the longest and hardest struggles (see your history fellow citizens!).
What rights that workers have obtained will have to be fought for long and
excruciatingly all over again.
Congress is not a collection of
representatives “of the people, by the people, and for the people,” but instead
a club of, by, and for millionaires, billionaires, and corporations. Working for, or at least compromise for, the
common good, is so rare it is effectively inconsequential. We have a one-party system with two factions,
effectively controlled by a five letter word, MONEY.
A system that, on its present path, cannot
deliver the one thing that the most extensive worldwide polling ever done has
revealed is the most ardent desire of the present-day adult the world over:
A good paying (livable wage) job. The very thing that this corporatist, maximum
short-term profit, world system is least capable (and least desirous) of
delivering. And because the system
doesn’t do that most foundational thing it NEEDS to do, nearly every other
problem we have cascades into near insolvability. The system is on track to so monumentally
under-deliver, it doesn’t take a soothsayer to see the problems coming at us.
And yet we keep thinking the “magical
market”—yes, the twisted, manipulated, corporate-and-plutocrat-controlled “free
market”—is somehow going to deliver for us what we desperately need. But it is the same system whispering its
continuous barrage of weakening diversion and subjugation: “Embrace The Illusion.”
Boy, do we need a lot of people to, with quiet
but firm determination, whisper back: “Not Me.”
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Childish labors and smokescreens and diversions
Consider the deceiving smokescreens of concern
about “child labor,” and how little Johnny and Mary are being prevented from
working for Granny and Granddad on the farm or the like. No parent or grandparent has been arrested,
in my research, for employing their child or grandchild, and it is deliberately
misleading to try to whip up people that they have, and that “laws need to be
changed.” The family business is mostly
left alone, as is much ag really temporary labor.
But that’s not what others would have you
believe. Therefore, when you hear their
rhetoric, tell yourself you will look at motives inside of what is being said,
and who is saying it, and who is behind saying it.
When they cease to be able to intellectually
and emotionally whirl us around at their whim, we will have taken a giant step
toward getting ourselves and our democracy back from what one commentator,
borrowing from Transformers, terms “the Decepticons.”
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Inside Your? Valentine
Refusing to accept something does not make it untrue. How many women (and men) find it incomprehensible “how he/she could ‘cheat’ on me.” This “cheating” (I despise the word for a whole host of intellectual and presumptive/insinuative reasons) is a complex thing, much of it biology driven (drive of men for sexual conquest and subliminal procreation), some of it relationship and missing needs driven, some of it thrill-seeking and excitement driven, and even a bit of it at times a reaction to psychological-emotional damage of the past in one or more of those involved.
And now comes one more contributor: Oxytocin. Apparently, new research suggests, the presence (or lack) of this emotional attachment hormone helps plays a large part in determining how monogamous someone FEELS (which, as we know, often, although not always, determines how one acts). “Cads,” “players,” “sluts,” “cheaters,” etc.—the reasons for their behavior may be a lot more understandable now. Conversely, the relative ease that some couples and individuals have with monogamy may also be a lot more understandable.
But I can hear the significant others now: “I don’t care if you did get tested as low on the hormone; if you do anything, it’s CHEATING, and you’re SCUM!” :)
And so it goes. :)
What’s really interesting is to observe one person in a relationship “cheat” on their “significant” other, and then be hurt and incensed when they find out that the other has done the same thing. The hypocritical outrage and condemnation is truly a thing to behold!
Ah, the genders. Never a dull moment! Of history repeating itself.
Over and over and over and over…
The original drama? Long before the Greeks “created” it, certainly! :)
Monday, February 6, 2012
Envisioning the Non-Spectacle
We have, at state and national level, complex problems of a complex society. But with legislators spending between 1/3rd and 2/3rds of their waking hours on fund raising (by necessity), where do they find the time to read the lengthy bills, do the research, absorb the briefings? The answer is: they don’t. Just when we need them to work full time on our problems!
What would help? Shorten the campaign season. Radically. Ban ads; they’ve become mostly corrupt twisted lies spreaders. Don’t discourage debates, sure. Encourage forums and town halls for direct questions, yes. But also, especially, encourage written (truly thoughtful, non-sound bite) answers to questions put forward by journalists, academics, League of Women Voters, etc.
It would be a start in the right direction away from the spectacle that passes for our political process.
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Channeling Eisenhower
The Framers’ reading of Roman history was correct, and their marked fear of, and guarding against, militarism was justified. If they were around today, they would remark that the limitations they put in place were not strong enough, and that Rome was being repeated. They knew that having large standing armed forces is a danger to both economy and democracy/the republic. It causes threats to be inflated or invented; it colors both perceptions and options in regards to international affairs; it breeds wars of aggression; it produces enemies from those who might be neutral or even friendly; it tempts its unwarranted use by policymakers; it obscures true self-defense and true national interest; it promotes and enriches selfish, corrupt, and connected individuals and organizations; it feeds, infuses, and justifies itself; it breeds non-producers and penalizes and weakens the non-producers, to the utter detriment of economic and social health; it drains vitally needed resources from the infrastructural and social needs of the society; it separates the population from the responsibility and involvement and meaningfully felt consequences of military actions taken; out of arrogant power, it fosters conflict instead of cooperation; as the social and economic society decays around it, it becomes the proficient and respected force that people look to for some sort of salvation, leading to further increase in its power; and its members, and especially its leaders, come gradually to both lose respect for civilian decision makers (and their authority), and to insert themselves further and further into the processes of politics.
America needs to shake off the obscuring hegemonic dust from its eyes, dust that is as old as WW2, and realize that it MUST both envision and make happen—soon—a much smaller standing military. Rather than structure itself for some nebulous “war on terrorism,” while simultaneously structuring for some big WW2/Cold War pan-conflict, and all the large forces that postulates, it needs to go in the opposite direction. It needs a very small, highly proficient force of special operations and related troops that can address the asymmetrical warfare likely, and leave to the National Guard (the militia; remember, those folks the Framers spoke of in the Constitution?) having cadres of specialized instructors and officers who can plan and provide for the possibility of needing to mobilize large numbers when true threats to the defense of the US and its true interests arise.
This would break the military-industrial complex, will lose some established expertise, and comes with it some risk. But the risk to continuing on our present course is no risk at all—it is certain self-decay and self-destruction.
America needs to shake off the obscuring hegemonic dust from its eyes, dust that is as old as WW2, and realize that it MUST both envision and make happen—soon—a much smaller standing military. Rather than structure itself for some nebulous “war on terrorism,” while simultaneously structuring for some big WW2/Cold War pan-conflict, and all the large forces that postulates, it needs to go in the opposite direction. It needs a very small, highly proficient force of special operations and related troops that can address the asymmetrical warfare likely, and leave to the National Guard (the militia; remember, those folks the Framers spoke of in the Constitution?) having cadres of specialized instructors and officers who can plan and provide for the possibility of needing to mobilize large numbers when true threats to the defense of the US and its true interests arise.
This would break the military-industrial complex, will lose some established expertise, and comes with it some risk. But the risk to continuing on our present course is no risk at all—it is certain self-decay and self-destruction.
Monday, January 30, 2012
It's A Fraud All Right
7 federal prosecutors were fired during the Bush administration because they raised objections to wasting precious resources looking for voter fraud when they knew there was next to none.
The rest of the Justice Dept looked. At a cost of several tens of millions of dollars. They found 30 cases. Most of those were explained away by people who had completed a prison sentence, and then voting in a state where they couldn’t anymore. Now, completing a prison sentence normally restores voting rights. But for these former prisoners in the few states where voting rights disappear for good, some few people didn’t know that and attempted to vote. 30 people, out of 250 million. So one has a greater chance of being struck by lightning than voter fraud happening.
Is there some evidence that I am missing? Because unless I am, it appears that campaigns against “voter fraud,” campaigns manifesting as highly restrictive, obstructive, bureaucratic roadblocks that use “anti-voter fraud” as cover, appear to have a sinister motive. As in taking away a person’s right to vote (Constitutional violation of a fundamental/foundational right).
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Energy For Non-Reality and Little to None For Reality
There was a recent Korean study of people who
played computer games more than 30 hours per week. The subjects reported they couldn’t reduce
their playing even though they wanted to.
When they were given an MRI while shown things that reminded them of the
game, their brains had virtually the same reaction as drug addicts when shown
something about their addictive drug.
As psychologists and sociologists have been
warning, to no avail, the country is awash in an epidemic of obsessive video
gaming.
Neil Postman said over twenty-five years ago that we were going to amuse
ourselves to death. One of the questions
I have, though, is: How much is the allure of virtual reality, and how much is the
depressive outlook of so much of reality—that the society is offering little
real opportunity, let alone truly exciting avenues, for what should be the up
and coming?
Monday, January 16, 2012
The Boxer Who Never Took a Month Off to Rest, The Woodcutter Who Never Sharpened His Axe
Post World War 2 America inserted itself into
every manner of international involvement, and that injecting of itself into
center stage demanded much from a people and a society.
The American people did not deliver, either
domestically or internationally. They
remained in the main unengaged and uninterested, acquiescing to interventionist
impulses of those they put in power and then promptly ceased vigilance on.
As strategies and strategists go, pretty much
a failure. The most they would get from
a generous but unbiased grader is a D- or D, but that would be due more to lucky events and the inherent
flaws of enemies than to forethought and will.
The US has blown the lull period. Sure, in the Cold War. But beyond that, especially, when so much
money and effort should have been made to rest and recuperate and even
advance. Instead, we got bases,
intervention, power projection, and general militarization, along with money
funneled in effectively corrupt trainloads to defense, intelligence,
“security,” etc. contractors. We built navies
and air forces that not only were largely effectively unused (and certainly not
for vital American interests), but wouldn’t have been regardless, probably even
if they had been the right type and amount (and they were neither). We DO need a United Nations Security Council (UNSC)
naval force for addressing piracy and keeping open the seas, but little else. We MIGHT need a UNSC air force.
There IS no perfect security. Everything you do to make your country MORE
secure militarily comes at a cost—a steep cost—to the very economic and social
health that is the true power of your society.
Can our Framers look any wiser? Or we any more foolish?
Historians are not going to be kind…
Monday, January 2, 2012
Where did all the men go?
“I am tired of meeting BOYS who tell me what they think I need to hear, make and break promises, and aren’t ready for something serious. If you are dealing with unrequited love, childhood anger, or emotional dismissiveness, stay away. I have dealt with many people who carry baggage and seem to think it is okay to ‘put themselves out there.’ Two words…Get help.”
The above frustrated female poster to an online forum might at first appear to be singing the same dirge of frustration at males’ commitment avoidance as has been sung for many years. But it’s a bit more involved than that. On to the (or rather, an) analysis!
America men wait longer and longer to get married, on average, than they used to. No longer are the majority of men married by their late 20s. The reasons are likely complex, despite all the tie pullers on inflammatory radio who would have you believe in a (their) single cause.
Yes, young men may have paid attention to how marriage has become in a culture that throws so much burden on the nuclear family and gives next to nothing in support of it. Even when divorce hasn’t been the observed result of years of slogging, marriage may not look all that appealing, especially with the selfish undertone of the culture poisoning the well. And that’s even without the observed woman or women being controlling, manipulative, or any of the other things examined previously in this forum, which would obviously throw a big negative bone into the mix.
That the young men (extended boys, really, in many cases) are often socially stunted, is in little dispute. Whether it’s the proverbial “playing video games in their (indulgent) parents’ basements” for the same endless hours a drug junkie devotes , or other evasions of manliness and responsibility, socialization is lacking. Without socialization, semi-isolation is too easy, especially with the pseudo-connectedness (and pseudo-reality) of the internet—and all amid a culture that seems to teach or at least okay manipulation, exploitation, and other things that poison honest relationships.
Their average testosterone has also taken a nosedive, and that only accentuates most of the problems. Difficult to be the complete man when the very foundational hormone that both makes someone a man and drives nearly every aspect of physical and psychological make-up, is lower. Add to that the atrocious nutritional quality of much food and drink, and it only magnifies the problem.
In the female-dominated social structure, men, married men especially, and fathers in particular, are portrayed as stupid, foolish, simple, malleable, etc.—the target of jokes in sitcoms, comedy routines, and real life. THERE’s certainly some low bar expectations to live down to—or avoid altogether. A lack of respect also gets reciprocated by the way. You ladies who are wondering where the Mr. Darcy’s, and Noah’s, and others of romantic literature are—while your expectations may have perhaps always been a bit excessively magnified due to literature’s ideal portrayal, your chances are often slim of getting even a remote semblance if respect is missing from the cultural equation.
Economically, the real job prospects, and especially the exciting ones, have gone away for probably a majority of men in the culture. Few things are more emasculating and depressing to a man than having his work identity gutted. Evasion of the society that wants to give him no good options, or force him into poor ones, doesn’t look quite as completely irresponsible as it might have before considering that. Even when he can find a job (FAR less than a certainty today), the chances of finding one at a livable wage (and mostly forget about one that can provide for two or more people) are much reduced. And that he knows that he alone can’t care for a wife and children, does something to his psyche, probably unrealized. If the women in Grapes of Wrath were looking at and testing their men to see if they’d given up, perhaps many young men today have—deep inside their psyches—given up before they start.
That there is a general underlying feeling of driftlessness, shallowness, off-the-track inertia in this culture only reinforces the problems exponentially.
William Bennett has a new book out (“The Book of Man”) about the demise of manliness. It’s a start. We need a discussion on it, and a whole lot of related subjects in this culture.
Are there other probable causes of the changes in young men’s behavior? Certainly. We may have barely scratched the surface.
Only the fact that the human pair-bond is one of the strongest, if not the strongest, chosen relationships around, keeps marriage in the running.
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